1000 Followers


Recently my blog crossed 1000 followers and I am really surprised to know the same. When I started sharing my writings here, I have never thought of continuing for long but the overwhelming response and motivation from all of you had kept me going. 🤗😄

Just wanted to say thanks to all of you for your love and support which is the biggest gift for a writer. I am not that much active on blogging but have always tried to write whatever comes in my mind and share among you all. Your views and motivation are very important and I hope you all will continue to shower your blessings on me. 😃 Thanks a lot for reading, liking and sharing your views which keeps me going and I hope to write much more in coming future… 🤗😄🙏 Stay tuned and thanks a million for this… Have a nice day. God bless you all with lots of love and happiness… 🤗😊🙂

Ashish Kumar

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Solitude – Pleasure or pain?



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Solitude is one the situations which often makes or break confidence, relations, mindset, perception etc. It is the state or situation where one feels alone or lonely. Human nature wants to be known and admired and solitude is just opposite where one finds himself to be detached from everyone. The reason of being felt lonely can be many like not getting what desired, love failure, introvert nature, jealousy etc. The repercussion of solitude is sometimes harsh even leading to suicidal death which is startling and extreme. One of the main consequences of solitude is that people lose hope and get depressed. Losing hope is that state where one finds nothing positive for himself and negative vibes starts accumulating in mind.

Feeling of loneliness is not new and one feels lonely several times in life. Some of the common reasons behind solitude are love failure, failure in innovating something new, break up in the relationships etc. If you are a song lover, you might have came across many songs which are solely based on solitude. When people fail in love, they think they are nowhere and they are the one who finds themselves the loneliest person in world. When someone resigns from his job because he doesn’t liked it, it also gives a lonely feeling till he finds a suitable job as per his interest. When there is a misunderstanding which leads to fight between family members and all are members are against you, solitude again finds a place. There are many other circumstances where one encounters solitude in his/her life. All these are part of life and should be taken as an experience.

Life has many aspects and solitude or feeling of loneliness is one of them which can be a pleasure or pain. Surprised to see how it can be a pleasure? Yes it can be a pleasure if one takes this as an opportunity. Generally, people consider solitude as a pain. It is a pain if one thinks it in that way and can be a pleasure as well if you have guts to convert that pain into pleasure which is difficult but not impossible. One should think in a different way and should take solitude as an opportunity. Solitude is that situation where one finds himself to be detached from rest of the world.  When you are detached, you have enough time to think and rejuvenate yourself. Surprised??? Solitude gives you a chance to talk to yourself what we call as introspection and introspection leads to creativity and innovation. When you introspect, you are able to find the loopholes and can start from scratch or can find the better way round which can give fruitful results. Solitude also gives you the chance to know your inner strength, how strong you are and how you are going to manage trying circumstances. All these counts and makes you much stronger than before. Converting solitude into an opportunity is difficult but not impossible. Solitude indeed gives you a chance to prove yourself and come back with smiling face post debacle, if any.  The only thing matter is how one takes this situation, either positive or negative. Choice has to be made.

It takes time to get rid of the bad moments where one finds himself detached but should not allow prolong accumulation of negative vibes which ultimately leads to depression and frustration. Take time and start as nothing lasts forever.  If you keeps on thinking and thinking on what happened in past or past bad memories then how you will live in present and how will you secure your future? In my opinion, solitude is neither a disaster nor a debacle;  it’s a part of our life. Life has many layers, both good and bad. I too have been in solitude several times and was able to tackle which was a nice experience. Experience again is very important in life, both positive and negative which makes you a strong person which helps you in decision making. Remember one thing, if you feel lonely because of absence of people around you, your conscience and confidence still remains within you which are capable enough to convert negative into positive. What I would convey is take solitude not as a burden but spent some time and think and come back with smiling face. Lastly, I would like to share one of the famous quotes of Bob Marley.

You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.

Bob Marley

 

– Ashish Kumar

Let’s write


Let’s write.

Even though you are in a fight.

Fight with the people or with inner self.

Writing helps in discovering yourself.

Difficult to forget the period of turmoil.

Either present or future, better not to spoil.

Be ready picking up the pen and the paper.

With words just paint the paper.

Come and begin a new journey of writing.

Instead of just sitting and relaxing.

Let’s write.

Even though you are in a fight.

Ashish Kumar

You are my future…


Every moment I feel your presence.
Most of the times I see your negligence.
Your eyes always speak something.
I just want to know that thing.
You are here I am here.
What is there to fear?
Leave the barking people aside.
Come in my heart and reside.
You are my only priority.
Together we will survive any tragedy.

I saw you the day when you cried.
For you my dear I did cried.
I know you more than yourself.
You know me more than myself.
Your lips are always hesitating.
Convey to myself instead of stopping.
Don’t think much about the social issues.
Together we will tackle all the issues.
Forget about everything and come closer.
We will be together.
Leave the rest.
Together we will enjoy all the fests.
I have nothing to do with the past.
I know only one thing.
I am your present.
And…
You are my future.
I am your present.
You are my future.

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– Ashish Kumar

Igniting the flame of serenity…


World has changed a lot.
Always seems to have a violent plot.
The notion of humanity is no more.
Day by day violence is increasing more.
People wonder what is their deed.
Inside and outside they did bleed.
Bloods are flowing like water.
Always I see is humans getting shattered.
Tears spread across the globe.
I am thinking is their any scope.
World is getting terrorized.
Is violence really required?

No human wants to be in vain.
But everyone is residing in pain.
Both mentally and physically.
All are losing hope slowly.
Darkness spread all around the world.
They are disturbing the peaceful world.
Bombings and murders are common.
I wonder whether things will be normal.
We have to come together for peace.
Rather than sending people to rest in peace.
The question still arise.
Is violence really required?

Come all.
We will join hands.
In order to curb violence.
Let’s make the inner voice louder and shouter.
The only wish we all have is peace.
We want peace.
Let’s make a better world.
With no violence.
Where all of us are in path of humanity.
Igniting the flame of serenity.
Let’s make a world.
Where everyone should be down to gravity.
Igniting the flame of serenity.
Let’s make a better world for our future generations.
Where all should have a better collaboration.
Let’s come and join hands.
For the sake and glory of humanity.
By igniting the flame of serenity.
Igniting the flame of serenity.

 

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 – Ashish Kumar 

Note : This poem is in response to the grand collaboration #PoetsForPeace hosted on FORGOTTENMEADOWS 

Concluding without Analysis


There are different circumstances in life where we always come to conclusion after analysing the facts and figures, situations etc. In fact life is always full of incidents. Every moment we are facing an incident or better to say some happenings which are always a part of life. Each and every scenario has its own aspects. Life is never the same. Every time we take some decision based on some facts or scenario and come to a conclusion. But do we really always  come to a conclusion by thorough analysis of all the aspects and facts?   If you want to know the answer then you have to analyse first and then come to a conclusion.

Yes what I am pointing here is one of the general and most neglected behaviour and that is “Concluding without analysis”. There are many circumstances where we bluntly come to a conclusion without analysing anything. There are times where we generally come to conclusion without knowing the reality which should be avoided.  No one is perfect in this world. Everyone is having some faults and this is the law of nature and we cannot change it.

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In this hectic and busy life, we meet and interact several person in our surrounding or in office. Its not always easy to feel comfortable with everyone because everyone is having his own comfort zone.  Everyone is having his own way of thinking and that may be good or bad. Many people have the tendency to taunt always and hurt others without any reason and enjoy that situation and laugh uselessly. There are many things which we cannot control but there are few things which we can control and behaviour is one among them. Our behaviour is that part which can make or break the life and coming to a conclusion without analysis is also a part of our behaviour.We should not posses the tendency to judge others regarding their work, talent etc. At the same time we should not predict what he/she will do or become in future  because remember Dr A.P.J. Kalam was an orphan and he used to sell newspaper in his childhood and he became the “missile man  and President of India”. Narendra Modi was a tea-seller in his childhood but he is the current Prime Minister of India. There are many other examples too.

The tendency to arrive at a conclusion is good only when we have analysed the facts or otherwise conclusion without analysis will happen which will in turn can be dangerous too. Concluding without analysis can happen for sure by mistake or in hurry but that doesn’t mean we should make this a habit. There are circumstances when such kind of attitude is not good to the person bearing it. It depends on us how we proceed on such situation. A simple example is if you are not well and decides to go to a doctor for check up. The doctor first collects the information from you like your name, age etc. and then checks your body temperature, blood pressure etc. and asks from you regarding your symptoms or if necessary he may opt for some blood tests. Based on these information he comes to a conclusion that your are suffering from this disease  and prescribes the medicine for same. Does he prescribes the medicine as soon as you reach without knowing your situation? The answer is no.  In the same way we should also avoid coming to a conclusion without knowing the reality.  Concluding without analysis can give you fun for a short term but for the long term , it is a disaster.

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– Ashish Kumar

Collegedunia – The world of colleges


In India, one of the most difficult situation that students face is about the choice regarding college like which college is better, where to take admission, does the fee structure will be affordable or not etc.  The decision to choose better college based on their aspiration is not an easy task. There are times when wrong decision had been made by students because of lack of proper information. In this article I would like to share one website which I came across recently and found it worth to be visited for all those aspiring students who are in the dilemma because of lack of proper information.  The website is  Collegedunia.

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Every aspiring student wants to get all the necessary information before taking admission in college. So he starts searching and collecting information and proceeds accordingly. But what if you get all the necessary information about colleges at one place? Yes, Collegedunia does that for you. This website contains information of around 15,000 colleges of our country. First I would like to share brief history and objective behind this website.

History

Collegedunia was founded by Sahil Chalana in May 2014. There are plenty of websites which provides tutorial and video lectures for the courses. But when it comes to getting information regarding colleges, it is difficult and time consuming task. So the objective behind formation of this website is clear –  ” to develop a one stop destination for students on a college/university hunt.”

“We go at great lengths to get our users the most detailed information which differentiates us from our competitors. One of the biggest learning I had from all this was that ventures fail but people who persist don’t,” says Sahil.

What you can get?

Collegedunia has information of about 20,000 colleges and almost all the competitive exams like CAT, MAT, GMAT, GATE etc. One can navigate to different sections like architecture, commerce, science, management, hotel management, design, medical, law, engineering, dental etc… You can browse to almost all the entrance examination like CAT, MAT, GATE, NIFT, JEE, IBSAT, NATA, NIFT etc…

Apart from these you can also look at different courses like B.Com, B.tech. Msc. Phd, M.Phil and many more to get information regarding colleges.  Not only this they have made available the information brochure of almost all the colleges. One can download that and can get the desired information. This serves as a great help for many students who face this difficulty in order to get the information.

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One can also get the list of colleges present in a particular state and city and courses offered by them. It is a place where you have so many options to know about your college and decide accordingly.

Current status

Currently this website contains information close to 15,000 colleges across the country.  Collegedunia recently launched an exam feature where they notify aspirants about entrance exams deadlines, provide free sample papers, tips, counselling and result advice. Collegedunia is India’s most extensive listing portal – catering help to thousands of students.

Future Plan

Collegedunia is going to launch an app soon in order to make things easily available to the students. This will serve as a great boon too for many aspiring students.

This is a good initiative taken by Collegedunia to create a platform which will help thousands of students across the country. This is a complete package where you can get all the important information at one place and this is the thing which differentiates them. I would like to share few of the links which will be helpful in for you to gather information. Do have a look at them.

This website is surely going to serve the necessary requirement of having a single platform rather than to have individual one which is beneficial for thousands of students of our country.

The overall team of Collegedunia is increasing. It has increased from 5 to 50. Their office is situated in Prashant Vihar, New Delhi. Their target is to make available information of around 30,000 colleges by the end of this year. The company had announced a fund raise of INR 1 Crore form gaadi.com CEO Umang Kumar. The journey is good and steady and hope the journey continues.

I would like to appeal to all my readers to share this information regarding Collegedunia to their friends, relatives etc, so that they can benefit from this website and get the desired information.  The information provided by this website and the most important thing is, that too in one place is the reason which compelled me to write this article and share among you. I started collecting the information and here I am with this article so that those who are not aware of this can get to know and could benefit from this site.

 – Ashish Kumar