Weather is cool now so is the mind. What to write is the question in mind. Writing requires creativity and thoughts. Providing the reader’s, a meaningful thought. But what makes writers to write is unknown. It requires efforts which they only own. Writing is a virtual and pleasant world. Powerful writing can change the world. Writers are amazing and so does their literature. Every piece provides readers, some creature.
Writing journey can kick anytime. It depends on how and when one finds that time. Imagination, thinking, creativity, editing and many more. It needs all the hard work to create the pleasant world. Good literary pieces touch the heart and the soul. Leaving behind the memoirs which were foul. Powerful write up provides a ray of hope for the depressed. Rejuvenating them from where they were suppressed.
Writing is a unique art and can’t be stolen. Those whoever tried have fallen. Thinking beyond the normal life is required in writing. Presenting the real and the unreal scenario for reading. What readers read is the final version of the draft. Writers must deep think to make the “craft”. Duration from starting to publishing is not easy. As it requires mind to be constantly busy. Words doesn’t come many times, prior to writing. Words doesn’t come many times, prior to writing…
Relationship is an important factor in life and human beings are very prone to “make up and break up” situation which happens several times. Human relations are established with various factors and it depends on us how we keep those relations intact. There are also situations where we are influenced by others and we consider them as our ideal. Looking at the other way, one can also be an ideal for others, can influence and have a good convincing power. There are many work, research and books written on human behaviour and human relations, this article picks one of them. The book titled “How to Win Friends and Influence People”, written by Dale Carnegie is a must read for everyone as it makes us understand several practical life facing situation with ample examples.
About the Author
Dale Carnegie was an American writer and lecturer. Born on 24th November 1888 in Missouri in United States, his work is considered to be the finest in terms of human relations, inter personal skills, public speaking and self-improvement. He was a famous writer of his time and his work is still remembered today.
Carnegie’s first collection of his writings was Public Speaking: a Practical Course for Business Men (1926), later entitled Public Speaking and Influencing Men in Business (1932). In 1936, he wrote How to Win Friends and Influence People which became a bestseller from its debut. By the time of his death on 1st November 1955, the book had sold five million copies in 31 languages. He wrote several other books including:
The Art of Public Speaking
The Leader in You
How to Stop Worrying and Start Living
How to Enjoy Your Life and Your Job etc.
The book title of Dale Carnegie says all about the content and is indeed impressive and draws attention and so does the material inside the book.
About 15 percent of one’s financial success is due to one’s technical knowledge and about 85 percent is due to skill in human engineering- to personality and the ability to lead people.
– Dale Carnegie
Dale Carnegie books had many things to offer for book lovers. All his books contain many examples which provides a broad view of the perspective. It will not be injustice to say that his books provide a practical way to look at the situations in life. The best part of his writing was, he used to provide examples followed by establishing the principles.
About the Book
How to Win Friends and Influence People is his best-selling book. Published in 1936, till today this book is read by many across the globe as it provides basic etiquette that one should posses in his life. The book deals with the fundamental techniques in handling people, six ways to make people like you, how to win people to your way of thinking and how to change people without giving offense or arousing resentment. Each of the afore-mentioned topics are dealt in separate part of the book.
In the words of Dale Carnegie, “Dealing with people is probably the biggest problem you face, especially if you are in business”. The same is applicable in day to day life as People’s Management plays a vital role in life.
In life, we often come to situation we are criticized by others and we do criticize others. The book starts with the fundamental techniques in handling people and guess what is the first fundamental principle? It is indeed criticism. It says not to criticize, condemn or complain. In fact, Dale Carnegie states that ‘Criticism is a self-defence tool.” The chapter on criticism is worth to read and understand.
Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain- and most fools do.
– Dale Carnegie
This book is best known for providing Six ways to Make People Like You which are as follows:
Become genuinely interested in other people.
Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
Talk in terms of the other person’s interest.
Make the other person feel important – and do it sincerely.
The entire book is full of powerful and motivational statements. It gives you a sense of self-love as well apart from motivation. While reading the book, one can feel the power of words and get the essence of some worth literary pieces. The entire book is motivational and contains worth reading material. I have picked some of the quotes which is worth reading and hence thought sharing the same which includes:
In our interpersonal relations we should never forget that all our associates are human beings and hunger for appreciation. It is the legal tender that all souls enjoy.
First, arouse in the other person an eager want. He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot walks a lonely way.
The desire for a feeling of importance is one of the chief distinguishing differences between mankind and animals.
If there is any one secret of success, said Henry Ford, it lies in the ability to get the other person’s point of view and see things from that person’s angle as well as from your own.
The world is full of people who are grabbing and self-seeking. So the rare “individual who unselfishly tries to serve others has an enormous advantage. He has little competition.
We are interested in others when they are interested in us.
People who talk only of themselves think only for themselves. And those people who think only of themselves are hopelessly uneducated. They are not educated, no matter how instructed they may be.
If you argue and rankle and contradict, you may achieve a victory sometimes; but it will be an empty victory because you will never get your opponent’s goodwill.
Buddha said: “Hatred is never ended by hatred but by love, and a misunderstanding is never ended by an argument but by tact, diplomacy, conciliation and a sympathetic desire to see the other person’s viewpoint.
There are many other quotes which are impressive and worth to read but it is not possible to mention all. Read the book as it is a good material for developing interpersonal skills and self improvement which in turn helps in personality development. Many people might have already gone through this book and those who haven’t please read it as it is readily available in almost every book stall and can be purchased online as well. I will be coming up with more stuffs on books soon.
An unexpected situation came in life. Leaving no choice except to fight. Life was giving some deadly moments of curse. It was an invitation to battle, of course. There was no support from inside and outside. It was a playground with devils every side. The bloody battle playground was set. As there was no option to reset.
The battle started without any planning and strategy. It was surely going to be a tragedy. Not being afraid of the outcomes, gave the best. No worry even though if I may not rest. Sort of fear and tension surrounded. Body, mind and soul, all were wounded. There were no supportive and motivating noise to hear. My face was flooded with red tears. Left in the place of pain and void. It ended by losing as it was a failed try.
The lost battle which gave me a lesson of life. Result matters and so does the attempt in life. Attempt gives a chance to know the flaws and fault. As no one is perfect by default. Rectification of flaws are important to rise. Not a wise choice to remain in disguise. Battle still continues… Some won and some lost. Enjoyed the won and introspected the lost. Learning from the day to day battle as well. Deep diving the life which is indeed a “well”. As… The lost battle which gave me a lesson of life. Result matters and so does the attempt in life.
The insurance regulator i.e IRDAI has provided a New Year gift to the general public by paving the way for introduction of Standard Individual Health Insurance Product which will be known as Arogya Sanjeevani Policy. This product will be issued by all the non-life insurers as well as the Stand Alone Health Insurers (SAHI) from 1st April 2020 onwards.
There are many health insurance products with varying coverages offered by the insurance company. Often it creates confusion in the public as the terms and conditions vary amongst products. As health insurance is one of the basic needs of the public, it was necessary to have a standard product which should have common coverage across the industry. With this point of view, Insurance Regulatory and Development Authority of India (IRDAI) released Guidelines on Standard Individual Health Insurance Product on 1st January, 2020 which providing the details of the coverages and exclusions of the afore mentioned product. All the non-life and SAHI are mandatorily required to offer this product with same coverages and exclusions. IRDAI in the guidelines mentioned the below objectives in relation to the introduction of this standard product:
Insurance policy to take care of basic health needs of insuring public.
To have a standard product with common policy wordings across the industry.
To facilitate seamless portability among insurers.
This means every insurance company (general and health) will offer this product with same policy wordings as stipulated in this guideline without any modifications in coverages and exclusions. The insurance companies are free to price the product. However, Insurer can determine the price but the premium for this product shall be PAN India basis and no geographical location/ zone-based pricing is allowed. Let’s understand this with an example. Suppose, a person living in Mumbai buys this product from XYX Insurance company with Sum Insured of INR 5,00,000 and pays some premium say, INR 15,000. Other person residing in town, say Agra buys the product form the same company i.e XYZ Insurance with Sum Insured of INR 5,00,000 and he will also pay INR 15,000. The premium will be same for the same Sum Insured (INR 5,00,000 in the example) from the same insurance company (XYZ Insurance in the example) irrespective of the geographical area.
Unique Features of the Product
Obesity treatment covered.
All Day Care Treatment/Procedures are covered. Day Care Treatment means treatment or surgery where hospitalization required is less than 24 hours. Generally, there are list of day care procedures in health insurance policy which varies from company to company. Some company provides 140 day care treatments, some provide 200, 400, 500 or more. This product covers all day care treatment.
Dental Treatment, Plastic surgery necessitated due to disease or injury are covered. Generally, dental treatment and plastic surgery are covered only if necessitated due to accident/injury, but this product provide coverage due to disease as well.
Some of the procedures like Stem cell therapy, Robotics surgeries which are generally excluded from the health insurance products are covered in this product. The coverage for such procedures is restricted to 50% of the Sum Insured. The list of such procedures are mentioned in the Benefict Schedule of this article.
Features of the Product
The nomenclature of the Product shall be Arogya Sanjeevani Policy, succeeded by name of the insurance company, (Arogya Sanjeevani Policy, <name of the insurer>. No other name is allowed.
No Add-ons or optional covers are allowed to be offered along with the standard product. It shall not be combined with Critical Illness covers or Benefit Based Covers.
The product shall be offered on indemnity basis only.
Every General and Stand Alone Health Insurer are mandatorily required to offer this standard individual health insurance product.
The Policy tenure of the standard product shall be for a period of one year with lifelong renewability.
Minimum Sum Insured shall be INR 1 Lakh and Maximum Sum Insured shall be INR 5 Lakhs (in the multiples of 50,000).
Pricing: Insurer can determine the price but the premium for this product shall be PAN India basis and no geographical location/ zone based pricing is allowed.
The product can be offered on Individual or Family Floater basis.
Premium payment can be made on Yearly, Half-yealy, quarterly or monthly basis. ECS(Auto Debit facility) is also allowed.
30 days Grace Period for Yearly premium payment and 15 days Grace Period for other mode of premium payment.
Minimum and Maximum entry age is 18 years and 65 years respectively for adults. Dependent children can be covered from the age of 3 months to 25 years.
Co-payment: Fixed Co-payment of 5% shall be applicable across all ages for all claims.
No Deductibles are permitted in this product.
Sub-Limit on Cataract: Cataract expenses shall be covered up to 25% of Sum Insured or INR 40,000 whichever is lower.
Dental Treatment, Plastic surgery necessitated due to disease or injury are covered.
Cumulative Bonus: 5% of SI for each Claim Free Year max up to 50%.
Moratorium Period: After completion of 8 continuous years under the policy, no look back would be applied. This period of eight years is called moratorium period. After the expiry of Moratorium Period, no claim under the policy shall be contestable except for proven fraud and permanent exclusions specified in the policy.
The standard product may be offered as Micro Insurance Product subject to the provisions of IRDAI (Micro Insurance) Regulations 2015.
The detail coverage’s are provided in the below benefit schedule.
Expenses of Hospitalization for a minimum period of 24 consecutive hours. 24 hours time limit is not applicable if treatment is undergone in a Day Care Centre.
· Dental Treatment, necessitated due to disease or injury
· Plastic Surgery, necessitated due to disease or injury
· All Day Care treatments
Sub Limit for room/doctors fee
· Room, Boarding, Nursing expenses covered up to 2% of Sum Insured subject to maximum of INR 5000 pet day.
· ICU/ICCU expenses up to 5% of Sum Insured subject to maximum of INR 10,000 per day.
For 30 Days prior to the date of hospitalization
For 60 Days from the date of discharge from the hospital.
Coverage for Specific Procedures
Following procedures will be covered either as in patient or day care treatment in a hospital up to 50% of Sum Insured:
· Uterine Artery Embolization and HIFU (High Intensity focused ultrasound
· Balloon Sinuplasty
· Deep Brain Stimulation
· Oral Chemotherapy
· Immunotherapy – Monoclonal Antibody to be given as injection
· Intra vitreal injections
· Robotic Surgeries
· Stereotactic radio surgeries
· Bronchical Thermoplasty
· Vaporisation of the prostate (Green Laser treatment or holmium laser treatment)
· IONM – Intra Operative Neuro Monitoring
· Stem Cell Therapy: Hematopoietic stem cells for bone marrow transplant for haematological conditions to be covered.
Road Ambulance expenses up to INR 2000 per hospitalization
Expenses incurred for inpatient Care treatment under Ayurveda, Yoga and Naturopathy, Unani, Siddha and Homeopathy systems of medicines shall be covered up to sum insured, during each policy year as specified in the policy schedule.
Covered up to 25% of Sum Insured or INR 40,000 whichever is lower, per eye, under one policy year
Pre Existing Diseases (PED)
PEDs declared in the Proposal Form shall be covered after Waiting Period of 4 years.
Treatment of obesity are covered if all the below conditions are met:
1. Surgery to be conducted is upon the advice of the doctor
2. The surgery/procedure conducted should be supported by clinical protocols
3. The members has to be 18 years of age or older and
4. Body Mass Index (BMI);
a) Greater than or equal to 40 or
b) Greater than equal to 35 in conjunction with any of the following severe co-morbidities following failure of less invasive methods of weight loss;
i) Obesity related cardiomyopathy
ii) Coronary heart disease
iii) Severe Sleep Apnea
iv) Uncontrolled Type 2 Diabetes
5% of Basic Sum Insured for each Claim Free Year subject to a maximum of 50% of Sum Insured. In the event of Claim, the Cumulative Bonus shall be reduced at the same rate.
5% Co-Payment on all claims.
Waiting Period means that the listed risks will be covered after some duration from the commencement of the policy. The waiting period for the proposed Standard Individual Health Insurance Product are mentioned below:
Treatment of any illness within 30 days from the first policy commencement except claims arising due to accident.
24 Months Waiting Period: Following specified disease are covered after 24 months waiting period.
1. Benign ENT Disorder
11. Gout and Rheumatism
12. Hernia of all types
14. Non Infective Arthritis
15. Piles, Fissures and Fistula in anus
16. Pilonidal sinus, Sinusitis and related disorders
7. All internal and external benign tumours, cysts, polyps of any kind, including benign breast lumps
17. Prolapse inter Vertebral Disc and Spinal diseases unless arising from accident
8. Benign Prostate hypertrophy
18. Calculi in urinary system, Gall Bladder and Bile Duct, excluding malignancy
9. Cataract and age related eye ailments
19. Varicose Veins and Varicose Ulcers
10. Gastric/Duodenal Ulcer
20. Internal Congenita; Anomalies
48 Months Waiting Period: Treatment for Joint replacement unless arising from accident and Age related osteoarthritis & Osteoporosis are covered after 48 Months waiting period.
Some of the exclusions of the Policy are as follows:
Treatment taken outside India.
Treatment for correction of eye sight due to refractive error less than 7.5 dioptres.
Sterlity and infertility
Expenses incurred on Domiciliary Hospitalization and OPD treatment.
This product is launched to increase the insurance penetration and insurance density of India and to make health insurance affordable to general public. As the policy wordings are standard and it won’t change form company to company, chance of confusion among the general public is minimal. It will also have competition among insurers in terms of pricing of the product i.e premium charged. Insurance company will have to provide best pricing for the listed coverages. The performance of this product can be assessed only after its launch but it is expected to have positive result in the insurance industry.
I hope this article will be useful for the readers and I have also attached the Guidelines on Standard Individual Health Insurance Product for your reference. 🙂
उस कली की बात मैं क्या बताऊँ |
उस मुस्कान की खूबसूरती क्या बताऊँ |
वो जो करती है अपनी ज़ुल्फ़ों से नखरे |
उस हाज़िर जवाब इंसान की दास्ताँ क्या बताऊँ |
जो मिली नसीब से , उस संजीवनी की व्याख्या क्या बताऊँ |
दिल में बस गयी और साँसों में समां गयी |
उस नाचीज़ की हाल -ऐ -दास्ताँ मैं क्या बताऊँ |ख़याल आता है मुझे अब तेरा हर वक़्त |
जिंगदी थम सी गयी है बेवक़्त |
वो क्या जादू है तुझमे जिसमे मैं फिसल गया |
तुम्हारे ख्यालों में मैं बस गया |
तेरे होटों की मुस्कराहट कहती है कुछ और |
ज़ुबान पर बोल बोलती है तू कुछ और | दिल में तेरे कुछ चल रहा है | क्या वो मेरे लिए धड़क रहा है ?
रख कर दिल पर हाथ एक बार सोचो |
अपने आप से मेरे बारे में पूछो | जो तेरे दिल में बस्ता है… जो मेरे दिल में बस्ती है… थोड़ा तुम बताओ , थोड़ा मैं बताऊँ | थोड़ा तुम बताओ , थोड़ा मैं बताऊँ | अब कली से तुम फूल बन जाओ … अब कली से तुम फूल बन जाओ …
Hello everyone! Hope all are busy with new year celebrations. From your busy schedule, please accept new year wishes from my side as well. 🤗😊
I wish you a very happy new year ahead. May this year bring enormous happiness, love and success in your life. May God fulfill all your unfinished desires with many blissful events in this year. Happy New year 2020 🎉💯 Celebrate and enjoy with your full potential.
I was away from blogging for the past couple of months but I will be catching up soon with my posts. There are many wonderful posts of you people which I have missed which I will be reading soon. Stay tuned 😉😊… Stay Happy… Once again, a very happy new year 2020… 🎉🎉🎉
Germs of wrong deeds accumulate over time. Necessary to introspect and rectify the same on time. Distinction between “Mistakes” and “Crime” should be understood. Benchmark must be established to maintain the livelihood. Deeds are important part of life as it determines destiny. What is right or wrong should be understood primarily. Mistakes can be forgiven and but not the crimes. Do the mistakes to learn and stay away from crimes. Learn from the natural resources about their contribution. They never praise themselves for their immense contribution. Human beings are present everywhere in this world. Getting difficult to find “humanity” in this crowded and cruel world. People forget their acts which are sinful in nature. At the end, destroying the beauty of nature. People are running in an unknown race. What they will achieve with such a pace? Love and gratitude are losing its place. Unnecessary aggression and criticism are taking its place. Pretending and self- praising are gaining popularity. Introspection and self-realization are losing their viability. Losing their viability….
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