What is good and bad ?


There are times when we are not able to distinguish between the good and the bad. How do we come to a conclusion whether this is good or that is bad ? Is there a parameter for the same ? Well… this is an open debate and will remain as everyone has its own way to distinguish between the two. One thing can be good for someone and the same can be bad for others. This happens for sure. This article discusses about the goodness and badness.

In the fast moving world, we often come to circumstances where we are  not in a condition to come to a conclusion. A dilemma surrounds us. How do we call something is good ? If somebody helps you in trying condition, is that good ? When you are forced to do what you don’t want to do, is that good ? The normal answer is yes and no respectively.  There is also a time when we take some startling decisions hoping to have good impact in future but reverse happens. Life is full of twists and turns. Every individual has its own way to distinguish between the two.

Let me give some practical examples. Suppose a boy and a girl are in love with each other. The girl suddenly thinks that he is not a perfect match for her and decides to call an end to the relationship. When the boy comes to know the same he will be in shock for sometime for sure. Boy will definitely have  a kind of negativity and darkness at that time and in general he will say the girl did very bad to me. Ladki ne mere sath bahut ganda kiya… bla, bla etc… 😦  The reverse can also happen.  The thing is the boy thinks that the girl had done bad to him and at the same time the girl will think its good that I decided to dump him…. Now have a look at a different perspective. Suppose there are two friends who are having good friendship for a long time. First one has never been in bad doings and the second had done some bad in the past but not to his friend.  Both are having equal trust on each other. Suddenly there is a U turn taken by the second one due to greed or some other reason and he did something to his best friend which the later had never expected which ultimately lands his friend in no mans land. Now with this kind of betrayal the one who had never done bad in his life seems to have totally gone out of his goodness. He starts doing things which is totally out of his domain and range indulging in nuisance activities and ultimately harming others as well. Here betrayal made a good man finally coming in to a bad man now.  Is it right to become bad from good ?

The question what is good and what is bad has no answer in general. This is also a question which was running in my mind for many years. So I thought of raising this uncommon question in the form of this article. At the end, I would like to share one of the quotes of one of the greatest son of India, Maharshi Dayanand Saraswati  who in this quote had given a strong message which makes this quote one of my favorite.

When bad does not leave their badness why does the good leave there goodness.

            – Maharshi Dayand Saraswati 

 

So what according to you is good and bad ? Share your views… 🙂

– Ashish Kumar

5 Years in Blogging – Thank You Everyone


This month , Feb will make my blog Ashish-Vision 5 years old. It was way back in February 2011 when I decided to create a blog and share my writings here. When I started to blog , I was little bit worried but I must say the motivation and support this virtual world has given is amazing. I was in first year of my B.Tech when I started to share my literary pieces and at that time I was called a kind of mad fellow from my friends. People used to say “Kya likhte rehta hai aur post karta hai. Koi padhne wala bhi hai iska likha hua? (What this boy is writing always. Is anyone going to read his writings?) ” etc. etc… Sometimes such kind of comments definately made me worried but my inner feelings never allowed me to stop writing. But the thing is  engineering stuffs can be known by an engineer only and if you will ask the engineering things from a non-engineer you won’t get the desired output. The same applies to writing also. 🙂

The support and motivation which I have got from all of you is really overwhelming and would like to thank everyone from bottom of my heart for making this blog running for 5 years and I hope the journey continues. I am not a frequent publisher but I always try to write and publish the same whenever it comes in my mind. 🙂

I have always tried to respond to the award post and challenges but I know I have missed some of them for sure. So apology to those of my friends who have nominated me for the awards and challenges. Hope you won’t take that to your heart and will continue to shower your blessings on me with your valuable views in future too. 🙂  Once again thank you so much for making this happen… 🙂

I will be out of blogging for sometime. I cannot say the no of days, weeks or months  but I will be back for sure. Stay happy, stay healthy and make others happy as well. Be blessed all of you… 🙂

– Ashish Kumar

Few Quotes – 11


Hope all are doing good in new year. A new beginning has made its arrival. So here I am with few of my quotes after almost 3 months gap. Whenever I get a chance to write quotes I definitely do the same and it gives me a pleasurable feeling. 🙂 The response and motivation from all of you makes me to write more and more. Do share your views , opinions what you think about these quotations as your views are very precious for me. 🙂

  1. Sometimes eyes speak more than mouth.
  2. Being empty or lonely is not a misfortune. Its an examination which makes you self dependent and self-reliant.
  3. Few incidents needs to be buried rather than to keep alive in mind which may hamper the coming tomorrow.

– Ashish Kumar

…DOUBLE CENTURY – 200 FOLLOWERS…


Recently my blog reached 200 followers. i would like to thank all of you for reaching this number. It is because of you all and your love towards my writing which makes me going. A big thanks to all of you for making this happen and I hope you will keep supporting me always. 🙂 I would like to mention those few bloggers who became 50th, 100th, 150th and 200th followers respectively. The list may vary when I published my previous post of reaching 100 followers. These are bloggers who are my 50th, 100th,150th and 200th followers respectively…

50- Yashika became my 50th follower. A big thanks to Yashika.

100- Nimi Naren became my 100th followers. Thank you so much mam.

150- Sherrie de Valeria became my 150th follower. Thanks a lot Sherrie.

200- San_Jeet became my 200th follower. Thank you San_Jeet.

200-followers

Keep visiting , keep ,motivating me with your valuable views. Always needs your blessings. Thank you very much once again to all of you… 🙂

Stay tuned… Be in touch… 🙂

– Ashish Kumar

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