Why do people react so often ???


There are time when we come across situations where the conversation among the two persons becomes aggressive suddenly and we are left in shocking condition. We wonder what went wrong suddenly? The reason for such reactions can be many from suppressing the anger to intentionally reacting to get rid of the conversation, and at the same time, avoid interacting with such person in future as well. Also sometimes the problem which can be resolved properly becomes complex due to such reactions. In a group also if everything is going fine and suddenly one of the group members reaction is not up to the mark, things become complicated. The problem which can be solved politely and peacefully becomes complex and sometime going in to never solving state. But what make people to react at a sudden?

There are many who pretend to be too familiar and behavioral with friends or groups and leave no stone unturned to maintain such status in front of others even though they aren’t. And from the back they continue to criticize you unnecessary which hurts when it comes in to your knowledge. Also it may happen when you need any assistance from these people because you think them to be humble enough, you may get a reverse reaction from them and it happens. I am sure many of you who are going through this post have experienced this in your life.  So, what can be said about those? Are such reactions optimal and feasible enough to continue?

Life is good when we are good to others. Behavior is one of the most important aspects in life which can make or break relations, which can be of any kind. Does such kind of unnecessary behavior required? We are human beings and we commit mistakes and that’s how we learn as learning is a continuous process. But what about those who commit mistakes and never acknowledge and continue to indulge in blame game? Newton’s 3rd law of motion says “every action is having an equal and opposite reaction”. In case if someone gives such reaction, shall we also start giving such response to those? Is tit for tat is the solution?

But one question which still remain unanswered is Why do people react so often even though if it is not required??? What is your view on this… Please share in the form of your comment… 🙂

– Ashish Kumar

 

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FEW QUOTES – X


This is the 10th post of my FEW QUOTES… series. The overwhelming response from you all makes me to pen quotes and share with you all. When I started to write quotes and thought of sharing on my blog, I was little bit worried about the response, whether it will be liked or not. But I am happy to say that the response from you all is what makes me to write more and quotes. Thank you everyone for making this happen. 🙂 So here are few of my quotations and I hope you will enjoy them. Do share your valuable views on these quotes of mine. 🙂

Here are my quotes…

  1. Sometimes you decide your destiny in life and sometimes life decides your destiny.
  2. Its not always possible to bear the tears , coming not from the eyes but from the heart.
  3. Problems are part of life. Dealing with them makes you strong and determined. Cherish it, fix it and at the last , do enjoy.

 – Ashish Kumar