Solitude – Pleasure or pain?



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Solitude is one the situations which often makes or break confidence, relations, mindset, perception etc. It is the state or situation where one feels alone or lonely. Human nature wants to be known and admired and solitude is just opposite where one finds himself to be detached from everyone. The reason of being felt lonely can be many like not getting what desired, love failure, introvert nature, jealousy etc. The repercussion of solitude is sometimes harsh even leading to suicidal death which is startling and extreme. One of the main consequences of solitude is that people lose hope and get depressed. Losing hope is that state where one finds nothing positive for himself and negative vibes starts accumulating in mind.

Feeling of loneliness is not new and one feels lonely several times in life. Some of the common reasons behind solitude are love failure, failure in innovating something new, break up in the relationships etc. If you are a song lover, you might have came across many songs which are solely based on solitude. When people fail in love, they think they are nowhere and they are the one who finds themselves the loneliest person in world. When someone resigns from his job because he doesn’t liked it, it also gives a lonely feeling till he finds a suitable job as per his interest. When there is a misunderstanding which leads to fight between family members and all are members are against you, solitude again finds a place. There are many other circumstances where one encounters solitude in his/her life. All these are part of life and should be taken as an experience.

Life has many aspects and solitude or feeling of loneliness is one of them which can be a pleasure or pain. Surprised to see how it can be a pleasure? Yes it can be a pleasure if one takes this as an opportunity. Generally, people consider solitude as a pain. It is a pain if one thinks it in that way and can be a pleasure as well if you have guts to convert that pain into pleasure which is difficult but not impossible. One should think in a different way and should take solitude as an opportunity. Solitude is that situation where one finds himself to be detached from rest of the world.  When you are detached, you have enough time to think and rejuvenate yourself. Surprised??? Solitude gives you a chance to talk to yourself what we call as introspection and introspection leads to creativity and innovation. When you introspect, you are able to find the loopholes and can start from scratch or can find the better way round which can give fruitful results. Solitude also gives you the chance to know your inner strength, how strong you are and how you are going to manage trying circumstances. All these counts and makes you much stronger than before. Converting solitude into an opportunity is difficult but not impossible. Solitude indeed gives you a chance to prove yourself and come back with smiling face post debacle, if any.  The only thing matter is how one takes this situation, either positive or negative. Choice has to be made.

It takes time to get rid of the bad moments where one finds himself detached but should not allow prolong accumulation of negative vibes which ultimately leads to depression and frustration. Take time and start as nothing lasts forever.  If you keeps on thinking and thinking on what happened in past or past bad memories then how you will live in present and how will you secure your future? In my opinion, solitude is neither a disaster nor a debacle;  it’s a part of our life. Life has many layers, both good and bad. I too have been in solitude several times and was able to tackle which was a nice experience. Experience again is very important in life, both positive and negative which makes you a strong person which helps you in decision making. Remember one thing, if you feel lonely because of absence of people around you, your conscience and confidence still remains within you which are capable enough to convert negative into positive. What I would convey is take solitude not as a burden but spent some time and think and come back with smiling face. Lastly, I would like to share one of the famous quotes of Bob Marley.

You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.

Bob Marley

 

– Ashish Kumar

The spirit to fight…


The spirit to fight is required.
In the time which is undesired.
Running away is not the solution.
Even though you are in tension.
During the midst of light and dark.
People will continue to bark.
Leave the taunting words aside.
Fight and make the situation at your side.
Fighting spirit is needed sometime.
At the inception of bad time.
Tough decisions need to be taken.
Rather than to keep the mind shaken.
Be strong and bold.
In order to carry the load.
Listen to the voice of your conscience.
This will provide you the proper sign.
Fight and fight…
Convert inconvenient to convenient.
As…
The spirit to fight is required.
In the time which is undesired.

– Ashish Kumar

ENJOY THE RIDE


Enjoy the ride.
If trouble comes.
Don’t run and hide.
Welcome the unwanted situation.
Be prepared to face in any condition.
Life is full of ups and downs.
One has to face to achieve the crown.

Enjoy the ride.
No need to hide from the problematic tide.
Hug the situation in order to tackle.
Instead of thinking it’s a debacle.
Every moment has a role to play.
One has to just pave the correct way.
Life is not free from troubling wave.
Make yourself strong.
Then trouble will be for troubling wave.
Not for you.
Have patience and focus.
You will surely be in your locus.
Move forward and rise.
As of now…
Just enjoy the ride.
If trouble comes.
Don’t run and hide.

ride

Ashish Kumar

FEW QUOTES – X


This is the 10th post of my FEW QUOTES… series. The overwhelming response from you all makes me to pen quotes and share with you all. When I started to write quotes and thought of sharing on my blog, I was little bit worried about the response, whether it will be liked or not. But I am happy to say that the response from you all is what makes me to write more and quotes. Thank you everyone for making this happen. 🙂 So here are few of my quotations and I hope you will enjoy them. Do share your valuable views on these quotes of mine. 🙂

Here are my quotes…

  1. Sometimes you decide your destiny in life and sometimes life decides your destiny.
  2. Its not always possible to bear the tears , coming not from the eyes but from the heart.
  3. Problems are part of life. Dealing with them makes you strong and determined. Cherish it, fix it and at the last , do enjoy.

 – Ashish Kumar

FEW QUOTES – IX


Quotations are very powerful and strong way to convey big and deep things in few lines. So here sharing few of my quotations which I hope will be liked by you. Writing quotations always gives me pleasure as it one of the few things which doesn’t take much time to write and read and at the same time has the capability to convey strong messages. Here I am sharing my 9th post of FEW QUOTES… series. Do read and share what is your views on these quotes of mine. 🙂

  • The most obscene thing mankind can do in his/her life is to break the trust. Its like a foul substance in the glass of clear water which makes water unsuitable to drink.                                                                                                              
  • Its easy to commit the mistakes but it requires courage to rectify the same.
  •  There are two types of knowledge – bookish knowledge and behavioural knowledge. Its difficult to find both at the same time. Having the combination of both makes one unique, different and perfect.

– Ashish Kumar

…FEW QUOTES – VIII…


Quotations are always very pleasant to read as well as to write. It has the power to say deep and meaningful things in few words. We always use quotations in our day to day life to convey our message. Writing quotations gives me a pleasant feeling. 🙂 So here are few of my quotes which I hope will be liked by the readers. Give your views  on these quotes of mine… 🙂

1. Be strong enough to carry the load, rather than to run away after seeing the load.

2. Relationship is not a burden. It is a gift that one has been chosen to posses.

3. Trust is something which cannot be forced. It can be only earned by your behaviour. 

– Ashish Kumar