Why do people react so often ???


There are time when we come across situations where the conversation among the two persons becomes aggressive suddenly and we are left in shocking condition. We wonder what went wrong suddenly? The reason for such reactions can be many from suppressing the anger to intentionally reacting to get rid of the conversation, and at the same time, avoid interacting with such person in future as well. Also sometimes the problem which can be resolved properly becomes complex due to such reactions. In a group also if everything is going fine and suddenly one of the group members reaction is not up to the mark, things become complicated. The problem which can be solved politely and peacefully becomes complex and sometime going in to never solving state. But what make people to react at a sudden?

There are many who pretend to be too familiar and behavioral with friends or groups and leave no stone unturned to maintain such status in front of others even though they aren’t. And from the back they continue to criticize you unnecessary which hurts when it comes in to your knowledge. Also it may happen when you need any assistance from these people because you think them to be humble enough, you may get a reverse reaction from them and it happens. I am sure many of you who are going through this post have experienced this in your life.  So, what can be said about those? Are such reactions optimal and feasible enough to continue?

Life is good when we are good to others. Behavior is one of the most important aspects in life which can make or break relations, which can be of any kind. Does such kind of unnecessary behavior required? We are human beings and we commit mistakes and that’s how we learn as learning is a continuous process. But what about those who commit mistakes and never acknowledge and continue to indulge in blame game? Newton’s 3rd law of motion says “every action is having an equal and opposite reaction”. In case if someone gives such reaction, shall we also start giving such response to those? Is tit for tat is the solution?

But one question which still remain unanswered is Why do people react so often even though if it is not required??? What is your view on this… Please share in the form of your comment… 🙂

– Ashish Kumar

 

Walking in the streets of life…


Walking in the streets of life.
Never found a reason to survive.
Ups and downs came frequently.
I lost my momentum suddenly.
Hoping everything to be fine someday.
I started to live in disguise everyday.
Gone are the days when I used to smile.
At a sudden, started to give fake smile.

Heart wrenched and trust broke.
At that moment I lost all the hope.
During the midst of day and night.
I was looking for a ray of light.
Gave all my effort whenever required.
Never got what I always deserved and desired.
Leaving all these in the buried part of the heart.
That left me in the situation with hurted heart.

Life is full of ups and downs.
Without struggle one can’t get a crown.
I have fallen and fought the situation.
Now its time to create a new option.
A journey to reach a new destination.
With more confidence and positive determination.
Although the chances are few.
As…
Walking in the streets of life.
Never found a reason to survive.

Ashish Kumar

Doing the karma…


Every time I see a good sign.
It ends with a negative time.
During the midst of day and night.
I never had a time with positive light.
Darkness spread all the way around.
Momentarily losing my sound.
Betrayal, trust broke.
Hope ended in a sudden stroke.
No regrets what I have done for others and what others had done.
I am just doing the karma.

Lost in the darkest side of my own shadow.
Searching for a place which is at least hollow.
Heart wrenched and soul teared.
Repetition of the same, I always feared.
Eyes became watery and face was red.
Walking alone, I was a living dead.
Swallowed everything in the deep of my heart.
Its true from inside and outside, I was hurt.
No complain for all the mess which have come.
I am just doing the karma.

Unwanted situations coming again and again.
Its time for me to convert this to gain.
Reality needs to be accepted.
Rather than to remain frustrated.
Time will change this is for sure.
For the present I need to assure.
No regrets for all the pains which have come.
I am just doing the karma.
Walking on the path of dharma.
I am just doing the karma.
Just doing the karma.

karma

– Ashish Kumar

ENJOY THE RIDE


Enjoy the ride.
If trouble comes.
Don’t run and hide.
Welcome the unwanted situation.
Be prepared to face in any condition.
Life is full of ups and downs.
One has to face to achieve the crown.

Enjoy the ride.
No need to hide from the problematic tide.
Hug the situation in order to tackle.
Instead of thinking it’s a debacle.
Every moment has a role to play.
One has to just pave the correct way.
Life is not free from troubling wave.
Make yourself strong.
Then trouble will be for troubling wave.
Not for you.
Have patience and focus.
You will surely be in your locus.
Move forward and rise.
As of now…
Just enjoy the ride.
If trouble comes.
Don’t run and hide.

ride

Ashish Kumar

Walk forever


Weather is cool and the breeze is smooth.
Moving with you is always smooth.
Although hesitation of interaction is clear.
But how can I leave you my dear.
The expression coming from your eyes.
Allow me to go to your side.
Leaving the haunted memories forever.
Holding each others hand we will walk forever.

The first day interaction is still fresh and alive.
You said something which gave me reason to joy.
You talked and talked and I just listened.
The way we met, it just happened.
Your facial expression has something to offer.
Just wondering, is it my offer?
Leaving the rest and coming together.
Holding each others hand we will walk forever.

walk together

You have suffered and I have suffered.
Its time for each of us to offer.
The dark side will never be the same.
Together, we will ignite a new flame.
The joy on each of our face is clear.
You are my dear and I am your dear.
Situation never remains the same.
Nothing lasts forever.
Good or bad.
Happy or sad.
Either the pain is light or severe.
One thing is clear…
Holding each others hand we will walk forever.
we will walk forever.

– Ashish Kumar