Why do people react so often ???


There are time when we come across situations where the conversation among the two persons becomes aggressive suddenly and we are left in shocking condition. We wonder what went wrong suddenly? The reason for such reactions can be many from suppressing the anger to intentionally reacting to get rid of the conversation, and at the same time, avoid interacting with such person in future as well. Also sometimes the problem which can be resolved properly becomes complex due to such reactions. In a group also if everything is going fine and suddenly one of the group members reaction is not up to the mark, things become complicated. The problem which can be solved politely and peacefully becomes complex and sometime going in to never solving state. But what make people to react at a sudden?

There are many who pretend to be too familiar and behavioral with friends or groups and leave no stone unturned to maintain such status in front of others even though they aren’t. And from the back they continue to criticize you unnecessary which hurts when it comes in to your knowledge. Also it may happen when you need any assistance from these people because you think them to be humble enough, you may get a reverse reaction from them and it happens. I am sure many of you who are going through this post have experienced this in your life.  So, what can be said about those? Are such reactions optimal and feasible enough to continue?

Life is good when we are good to others. Behavior is one of the most important aspects in life which can make or break relations, which can be of any kind. Does such kind of unnecessary behavior required? We are human beings and we commit mistakes and that’s how we learn as learning is a continuous process. But what about those who commit mistakes and never acknowledge and continue to indulge in blame game? Newton’s 3rd law of motion says “every action is having an equal and opposite reaction”. In case if someone gives such reaction, shall we also start giving such response to those? Is tit for tat is the solution?

But one question which still remain unanswered is Why do people react so often even though if it is not required??? What is your view on this… Please share in the form of your comment… 🙂

– Ashish Kumar

 

The spirit to fight…


The spirit to fight is required.
In the time which is undesired.
Running away is not the solution.
Even though you are in tension.
During the midst of light and dark.
People will continue to bark.
Leave the taunting words aside.
Fight and make the situation at your side.
Fighting spirit is needed sometime.
At the inception of bad time.
Tough decisions need to be taken.
Rather than to keep the mind shaken.
Be strong and bold.
In order to carry the load.
Listen to the voice of your conscience.
This will provide you the proper sign.
Fight and fight…
Convert inconvenient to convenient.
As…
The spirit to fight is required.
In the time which is undesired.

– Ashish Kumar

500 Followers


Recently my blog reached 500 followers. I would like to thank you everyone from bottom of my heart without which this would not have been possible. A big thanks to all my readers whose views are precious which keeps me going. I hope you will continue to shower your blessings on me in the future as well. 🙂

This blogging world is amazing indeed which allows us to interact with like minded people across the globe. All my blogger friends are really good and supportive in nature. I am lucky to have all of you. Each one of you are special foe me. Keep visiting and motivating me. Once again a big thank you… 🙂

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– Ashish Kumar

 

Just glow and go


The clouds are hanging.
With the possibility of rain.
Let them burst all the way.
So you can have a gain.
You are on your way.
With rains ready to welcome you.
Just start your journey.
With the lights staying by you.

Every new beginning is a challenge.
It relies on how we manage.
Lights and dark will always come.
Let the light glow and dark be overcome.
You may or may not succeed.
That doesn’t mean you can’t proceed.
Your faith is your strength.
Let it glow and become your friend.
Trust yourself and not the people.
Not allow yourself to betray the people.
Start your journey towards your destination.
Having a spirit of motivation.
Start and have it…
This is the right time.
Time comes and go.
Don’t wait…
Allow yourself to glow.
Just glow and go…
Glow and go.

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– Ashish Kumar

The need of Introspection


In the present scenario of fast moving world, we often achieve many things and also lose something. There are situations when we miss something. The world is changing day by day and people are no more out of this changing world. Every time we are in hurry. Sometimes it works and sometimes it won’t. Life is too short to achieve everything. Many people wants to get more and more even though if it won’t fall in their domain. Sometimes greeds surpasses the values and ethics.

Life is always beautiful. Everything happens has purpose hidden behind it provided if we take it in a different way without losing patience. Loss of patience creates many problems and if patience is lost then we definitely go for doing things in a hurry which ultimately leads to damage. We meet several people in our day to day life and we never feel reluctant in pointing to others problems, their mistakes and their wrong deeds if any. But the thing is we should also give some time to analyse ourselves, the need of introspection, an important thing which we often miss.

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One of the most surprising things I have seen and experienced is that we all have time for our work, laughing and gossiping, indulging in blame – game etc. We always have time to spent on Facebook, twitter, bla bla…. and I have seen many addicted victims spending hours on these. I am not against on any of them as I am also a user of these. 🙂 The thing is we have 24 hours in a day so can’t we give at least some minutes to analyse ourselves , talk to ourselves and improve our own thinking ability, create new innovative idea that will refresh our mind and make us  a good human being.

As you know introspection means talking to ourselves and it has the power to change the mindset if done in a correct manner. Blaming on others and remembering others mistakes and pointing that is the general attitude of humans and is enjoyed a lot. One must give sometime to himself/herself as it gives you a chance to know yourself better and better. One can know himself only when he is able to give time to himself. Talking to ourselves gives a pleasant feeling and it is at this time only when we also accept our own mistakes. Yes no one is perfect and life is all about to improve ourselves and for that improvement , introspection is required.

If one is able to give at least 5 minutes also for introspection, life will be different, mind becomes sharp and if mind becomes sharp creativity and innovations can be done easily. It is just how we manage time in life. Introspection gives you the chance to discover the beautiful person hidden inside you. It allows you to find the special inside you. It gives you the ability to know your inner strength and explore yourself as much as you can. Introspection is not a big deal to implement. You don’t need electricity, laptop, mobile phones etc. for introspection. 🙂 The thing you need is “you only and I think…

You are present everywhere wherever you go. You  cannot leave yourself and go. So introspect ….

 

I would like to conclude this article with one of the finest quote of Swami Vivekananda and this is one of my favourite quite which perfectly describes the need of introspection…

Talk to yourself once in a day… Otherwise you may miss meeting an excellent person in this world.                                                           – Swami Vivekananda

 

So introspect yourself and explore the hidden strength inside you…

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– Ashish Kumar