Ignoring the beauty of life…


 

Looking at every aspect of life.
We do ignore the beauty of life.
During the midst of happy and sad.
We really become, sometimes mad.
Chasing the one which we don’t need.
Lands us in situation of greed.
Even the heart says it is wrong.
We indulge in doing the wrong.
Involving in the thorny path.
We ignore the present golden path.
Instead of finding the positive.
We do find negatives in positive.
Leaving the glorious beauty aside.
We move towards the unhealthy side.

One needs to have introspection.
Instead of indulging in conspiration.
Life has several layers to come.
Good or bad, we need to overcome.
During the sole honeymoon period.
We forget the struggle period.
One should learn from the mistakes of past.
Rather than blaming the past.
The mindset needs to be changed.
Then only we can bring a change.
Harsh reality still persists.
As…
Looking at every aspect of life.
We do ignore the beauty of life.
Ignore the beauty of life.

– Ashish Kumar

Why do people react so often ???


There are time when we come across situations where the conversation among the two persons becomes aggressive suddenly and we are left in shocking condition. We wonder what went wrong suddenly? The reason for such reactions can be many from suppressing the anger to intentionally reacting to get rid of the conversation, and at the same time, avoid interacting with such person in future as well. Also sometimes the problem which can be resolved properly becomes complex due to such reactions. In a group also if everything is going fine and suddenly one of the group members reaction is not up to the mark, things become complicated. The problem which can be solved politely and peacefully becomes complex and sometime going in to never solving state. But what make people to react at a sudden?

There are many who pretend to be too familiar and behavioral with friends or groups and leave no stone unturned to maintain such status in front of others even though they aren’t. And from the back they continue to criticize you unnecessary which hurts when it comes in to your knowledge. Also it may happen when you need any assistance from these people because you think them to be humble enough, you may get a reverse reaction from them and it happens. I am sure many of you who are going through this post have experienced this in your life.  So, what can be said about those? Are such reactions optimal and feasible enough to continue?

Life is good when we are good to others. Behavior is one of the most important aspects in life which can make or break relations, which can be of any kind. Does such kind of unnecessary behavior required? We are human beings and we commit mistakes and that’s how we learn as learning is a continuous process. But what about those who commit mistakes and never acknowledge and continue to indulge in blame game? Newton’s 3rd law of motion says “every action is having an equal and opposite reaction”. In case if someone gives such reaction, shall we also start giving such response to those? Is tit for tat is the solution?

But one question which still remain unanswered is Why do people react so often even though if it is not required??? What is your view on this… Please share in the form of your comment… 🙂

– Ashish Kumar

 

…SUNSHINE BLOGGER AWARD…


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One of my blogger friend namely Itsmine nominated me for the Sunshine Blogger Award. His blog namely U R Always Welcome is a must visit if you have not visited yet. His posts are always a pleasure to read.  I would like to thank him for nominating me for the same. 🙂

Before I answer questions I would like to mention the rules first.

Rules

  • Thank the person who nominated you.
  • Answer the questions from the person who has nominated you.
  • Nominate some other bloggers for this award.
  • Write the same amount of questions for the bloggers you have nominated.
  • Notify the bloggers you have nominated.

My response to the questions

Who are you ?

I am a human being who is having a physical existence… 🙂 and tries to enjoy the precious and never coming moments of life. 🙂

Do you have any Role models ?

I think every one is having role model in their life. My role model are those people who have never giving up attitude and who knows to live the life even in trying circumstances.

# Which is the most powerful thing in this world,according to you ?

Self confidence and self dependent.

What is most valuable, charity & social work OR your own responsibilities?

Tough to answer as  you are asking me to compare. I think both are equally valuable as both are a service to mankind.

Are you funny OR serious  guy ?

It depends on how is your behaviour towards me.  I am funny and people enjoy my presence but at the same time I am a serious person when it comes to work. It depends on the situation and circumstances. 🙂

What is your biggest dream?

Well , I will reveal only when I will be able to fulfil the same. 🙂

What are your first impressions of my blog?

Interesting, enjoyable and entertaining… 🙂

   I would like to nominate the following wonderful bloggers…. 🙂

Questions to nominees

 1. In your opinion what is the biggest service to mankind.                                                            2. What is life?                                                                                                                                      3. What inspired you to start blogging?                                                                                            4. The funniest moment of your life.                                                                                                 5. You might have done mistakes in childhood. Share your favourite mistake. 🙂                       6. What are your first impressions of my blog?

All the very best to the nominees. I will be eagerly waiting for your answers. 🙂

– Ashish Kumar

… 3 DAY QUOTE CHALLENGE – DAY 3 …


Two eminent bloggers namely Shweta Dave and Deeshani Batra have nominated me for 3 day quote challenge. Writing quotes is always a pleasant feeling for me. Quotations play an important part in our life as it has the potential to say deep in few words. So on behalf of the nominations from two bloggers I would like to thank them from core of my heart. Thank you so much Shweta Dave and Deeshani Batra for giving this opportunity. I will suggest you to go through their blogs  too. I am a regular reader of Shweta Dave and I am reading her blogs for couple of years. She is an excellent writer and I am sure you will like her writings as well. 🙂   Deeshani Batra is a very good writer whose writing will impress you for sure. Her posts are refreshing and you will enjoy reading them. Do check their blogs… 🙂 This is the third and last day of challenge.

Now before I share a quote I would like to mention the rules first.

Rules

  •  Post a favourite quote of yours for 3 consecutive days,  obviously  a different quote          each day from any book, any author of your choice. It could also be your own quote.
  •   Nominate 3 bloggers with each post to challenge them.
  •   Thank the person who nominated you.

Now here is one of my own quote which I would like to share today. I hope you will appreciate and agree on it… 🙂

” Its true that some mistakes or sins are forgivable and forgettable. But it is also  true that some cannot be absolved. ”                                                                                             – Ashish

My nominees for today are as follows:

All the best to the nominees. I will be eagerly waiting to read your quotes… 🙂

–  Ashish Kumar