It gives me immense pleasure to share that today is the 9th blog anniversary of my blog, Ashish Vision. 🎉😂 It was on this day way back in 2011, I created this blog and started sharing my literary pieces and I am glad and thrilled to know that I am able to continue for 9 years. 🙏 The overwhelming response from all of my readers across the globe is what kept me going for so long and I would like to thank all of you from bottom of my heart. 🙏🙏🙏 Thank you so much.
I have learned a lot from the blogging world and still I am learning from all of you. When I started to share my writing here, I was not sure whether I will be able to create an impact or presence in blogging but the love and support you guys showed towards my writing is really needs appreciation from my side. 👍🤗💯
I have tried to touch all the genre and will continue to share my work with you all as readers are motivational force for a writer. I am not that much frequent but whenever I have something to offer, I definitely do. 🕺 I hope you all will continue to shower your blessings and keep me motivated in future as well. 🤗🙏
Once again, thanks a million for all the love, support, motivation and blessings. 💯 I’m lucky to have you people in my life. 🙏😊💌🎉
Relationship is an important factor in life and human beings are very prone to “make up and break up” situation which happens several times. Human relations are established with various factors and it depends on us how we keep those relations intact. There are also situations where we are influenced by others and we consider them as our ideal. Looking at the other way, one can also be an ideal for others, can influence and have a good convincing power. There are many work, research and books written on human behaviour and human relations, this article picks one of them. The book titled “How to Win Friends and Influence People”, written by Dale Carnegie is a must read for everyone as it makes us understand several practical life facing situation with ample examples.
About the Author
Dale Carnegie was an American writer and lecturer. Born on 24th November 1888 in Missouri in United States, his work is considered to be the finest in terms of human relations, inter personal skills, public speaking and self-improvement. He was a famous writer of his time and his work is still remembered today.
Carnegie’s first collection of his writings was Public Speaking: a Practical Course for Business Men (1926), later entitled Public Speaking and Influencing Men in Business (1932). In 1936, he wrote How to Win Friends and Influence People which became a bestseller from its debut. By the time of his death on 1st November 1955, the book had sold five million copies in 31 languages. He wrote several other books including:
The Art of Public Speaking
The Leader in You
How to Stop Worrying and Start Living
How to Enjoy Your Life and Your Job etc.
The book title of Dale Carnegie says all about the content and is indeed impressive and draws attention and so does the material inside the book.
About 15 percent of one’s financial success is due to one’s technical knowledge and about 85 percent is due to skill in human engineering- to personality and the ability to lead people.
– Dale Carnegie
Dale Carnegie books had many things to offer for book lovers. All his books contain many examples which provides a broad view of the perspective. It will not be injustice to say that his books provide a practical way to look at the situations in life. The best part of his writing was, he used to provide examples followed by establishing the principles.
About the Book
How to Win Friends and Influence People is his best-selling book. Published in 1936, till today this book is read by many across the globe as it provides basic etiquette that one should posses in his life. The book deals with the fundamental techniques in handling people, six ways to make people like you, how to win people to your way of thinking and how to change people without giving offense or arousing resentment. Each of the afore-mentioned topics are dealt in separate part of the book.
In the words of Dale Carnegie, “Dealing with people is probably the biggest problem you face, especially if you are in business”. The same is applicable in day to day life as People’s Management plays a vital role in life.
In life, we often come to situation we are criticized by others and we do criticize others. The book starts with the fundamental techniques in handling people and guess what is the first fundamental principle? It is indeed criticism. It says not to criticize, condemn or complain. In fact, Dale Carnegie states that ‘Criticism is a self-defence tool.” The chapter on criticism is worth to read and understand.
Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain- and most fools do.
– Dale Carnegie
This book is best known for providing Six ways to Make People Like You which are as follows:
Become genuinely interested in other people.
Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
Talk in terms of the other person’s interest.
Make the other person feel important – and do it sincerely.
The entire book is full of powerful and motivational statements. It gives you a sense of self-love as well apart from motivation. While reading the book, one can feel the power of words and get the essence of some worth literary pieces. The entire book is motivational and contains worth reading material. I have picked some of the quotes which is worth reading and hence thought sharing the same which includes:
In our interpersonal relations we should never forget that all our associates are human beings and hunger for appreciation. It is the legal tender that all souls enjoy.
First, arouse in the other person an eager want. He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot walks a lonely way.
The desire for a feeling of importance is one of the chief distinguishing differences between mankind and animals.
If there is any one secret of success, said Henry Ford, it lies in the ability to get the other person’s point of view and see things from that person’s angle as well as from your own.
The world is full of people who are grabbing and self-seeking. So the rare “individual who unselfishly tries to serve others has an enormous advantage. He has little competition.
We are interested in others when they are interested in us.
People who talk only of themselves think only for themselves. And those people who think only of themselves are hopelessly uneducated. They are not educated, no matter how instructed they may be.
If you argue and rankle and contradict, you may achieve a victory sometimes; but it will be an empty victory because you will never get your opponent’s goodwill.
Buddha said: “Hatred is never ended by hatred but by love, and a misunderstanding is never ended by an argument but by tact, diplomacy, conciliation and a sympathetic desire to see the other person’s viewpoint.
There are many other quotes which are impressive and worth to read but it is not possible to mention all. Read the book as it is a good material for developing interpersonal skills and self improvement which in turn helps in personality development. Many people might have already gone through this book and those who haven’t please read it as it is readily available in almost every book stall and can be purchased online as well. I will be coming up with more stuffs on books soon.
Hello everyone! Hope all are busy with new year celebrations. From your busy schedule, please accept new year wishes from my side as well. 🤗😊
I wish you a very happy new year ahead. May this year bring enormous happiness, love and success in your life. May God fulfill all your unfinished desires with many blissful events in this year. Happy New year 2020 🎉💯 Celebrate and enjoy with your full potential.
I was away from blogging for the past couple of months but I will be catching up soon with my posts. There are many wonderful posts of you people which I have missed which I will be reading soon. Stay tuned 😉😊… Stay Happy… Once again, a very happy new year 2020… 🎉🎉🎉
Weather is cool and smooth. Your companion is always soothe. Your silence speaks more than your words. I am diving deep in your love. When you came suddenly in my arms. I became wealthy by your charm. Worthy are those who find their love. What about me when you are my love. Trust me you are the best. Come in my arms and we will rest. You can’t look back the atrocities of past. Better to move on and bury the past. You suffered a lot and its’ time to enjoy. Come together and we will have joy. Let’s begin and start our journey. We will create a new history. Life is not always what we expect. Sometimes it does the patience test. Be patient and hopeful. As you are the best. Yes.. Trust me you are the best. Come in my arms and we will rest.
World is full of rejection and denial. This is a weather which is perennial. Barking people often bite. Ignoring them is the wise choice. Move ahead with your views. Don’t get distracted with others views. The more you ask the more you get confused. Have faith in yourself in order to not get misused. Tolerate which can be tolerated. Don’t take everything for granted. Everyone is unique and different. Hence… Be different and make a difference. Love yourself and your work. Avoid doing unproductive work. What you learn is what you earn. Hence keep a habit to learn. Don’t get distracted with the hearsay. Move ahead and find your way. As… World is full of rejection and denial. This is a weather which is perennial. Barking people often bite. Ignoring them is the wise choice. Ignoring them is the wise choice.
Hello everyone! It gives me immense pleasure to share that today is the anniversary of my blog, Ashish Vision which came into existence eight years ago i.e in 2011. It was on this day that I created my blog and started my journey in blogging world. 🤗😊 When I started, I have never expected that I will be able to continue for so long but thanks to all my readers and friends across the globe for making this happen. I would like to thank all of you for your overwhelming support and encouragement which keeps me going till today. 🙏🙏🙏 I will continue to write and share my literary pieces with you all. You all are very good, supportive and motivating. In these eight years of my journey, I have learnt a lot from all you and still I am learning from your posts and your views. 👍🕺.
Once again, thank you so much for your love and support. 🤗✌️ Keep visiting and motivating me with your valuable views and I hope the journey continue… 🙏 Thank you so much everyone. 🤗😊
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