Why do people react so often ???


There are time when we come across situations where the conversation among the two persons becomes aggressive suddenly and we are left in shocking condition. We wonder what went wrong suddenly? The reason for such reactions can be many from suppressing the anger to intentionally reacting to get rid of the conversation, and at the same time, avoid interacting with such person in future as well. Also sometimes the problem which can be resolved properly becomes complex due to such reactions. In a group also if everything is going fine and suddenly one of the group members reaction is not up to the mark, things become complicated. The problem which can be solved politely and peacefully becomes complex and sometime going in to never solving state. But what make people to react at a sudden?

There are many who pretend to be too familiar and behavioral with friends or groups and leave no stone unturned to maintain such status in front of others even though they aren’t. And from the back they continue to criticize you unnecessary which hurts when it comes in to your knowledge. Also it may happen when you need any assistance from these people because you think them to be humble enough, you may get a reverse reaction from them and it happens. I am sure many of you who are going through this post have experienced this in your life.  So, what can be said about those? Are such reactions optimal and feasible enough to continue?

Life is good when we are good to others. Behavior is one of the most important aspects in life which can make or break relations, which can be of any kind. Does such kind of unnecessary behavior required? We are human beings and we commit mistakes and that’s how we learn as learning is a continuous process. But what about those who commit mistakes and never acknowledge and continue to indulge in blame game? Newton’s 3rd law of motion says “every action is having an equal and opposite reaction”. In case if someone gives such reaction, shall we also start giving such response to those? Is tit for tat is the solution?

But one question which still remain unanswered is Why do people react so often even though if it is not required??? What is your view on this… Please share in the form of your comment… 🙂

– Ashish Kumar

 

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…BLOGGER RECOGNITION AWARD…


This amazing blogosphere has many things to give for the writers. Being a part of this is really a proud feeling and connecting with writers across the globe cannot be expressed in words. Getting a word of appreciation from the veterans as well as new bloggers is the biggest reward for me as I think if someone is giving time for reading my work , it gives me enormous happiness. 🙂 The happiness increases when someone considers you for an award. Yes, this time Deb from Once upon a Hot Flash and Inkmode have nominated me for the Blogger Recognition Award. When I woke up today in the morning I saw in the notification of this news which made my day as getting a good news in the morning is always pleasant. 🙂 I would like to thank Deb and Inkmode for considering me for the same. Deb is a very fine writer and her posts are refreshing and pleasant to read. Her blog consists of many pieces of different genre. She is a versatile writer. Do visit her blog for reading wonderful pieces… 🙂 Inkmode is a very good writer and is always a pleasure to go through her beautiful poems. Her poems are very touchy. I would recommend to visit her blog for her beuatiful creations. 🙂

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Here are the rules for this award…

  1. Select 15 other blogs you want to give the award to.
  2. You cannot nominate yourself or the person who has nominated you
  3. Write a post to show your award
  4. Give a brief story of how your blog started
  5. Give a piece of advice or two to new bloggers
  6. Thank whoever nominated you and provide a link to their blog
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How  my blog started

 I wrote my first poem which was in Hindi when I was in class IX and again a Hindi poem in class X but unfortunately I lost both of the poem which I was unable to preserve. Due to that anger I stopped writing for two years. 🙂 But there was always a voice coming from inside to write. So I started writing again when I entered college for persuading engineering and initially I wrote in notes on facebook for few months and was getting reviews there. I created my blog in February 2011 from one of my friend suggestion without knowing what a blog. I posted my first post in April. You will be surprised to know that I posted my 5 poems in a single day as I was not knowing how to operate the blog. 😦  Slowly and slowly I learnt what is blogging and how to use it and  I am here and just want to continue this journey as much as I can. 🙂

Advice to new bloggers

I don’t consider myself to be in the position to give advice to new bloggers. I also not consider myself a veteran  because I am still a beginner and in learning phase. I have learnt a lot in these years and just trying to improve my writing. I write because I love to do so and I think if you love to write, words will come automatically and you will surely get an appreciation.

As per the rules I have to nominate 15 bloggers for this award. So here is my nomination…

All the best to all the respected bloggers. I would be eagerly waiting to know how you started your journey in blogosphere… 🙂

– Ashish Kumar