Why do people react so often ???


There are time when we come across situations where the conversation among the two persons becomes aggressive suddenly and we are left in shocking condition. We wonder what went wrong suddenly? The reason for such reactions can be many from suppressing the anger to intentionally reacting to get rid of the conversation, and at the same time, avoid interacting with such person in future as well. Also sometimes the problem which can be resolved properly becomes complex due to such reactions. In a group also if everything is going fine and suddenly one of the group members reaction is not up to the mark, things become complicated. The problem which can be solved politely and peacefully becomes complex and sometime going in to never solving state. But what make people to react at a sudden?

There are many who pretend to be too familiar and behavioral with friends or groups and leave no stone unturned to maintain such status in front of others even though they aren’t. And from the back they continue to criticize you unnecessary which hurts when it comes in to your knowledge. Also it may happen when you need any assistance from these people because you think them to be humble enough, you may get a reverse reaction from them and it happens. I am sure many of you who are going through this post have experienced this in your life.  So, what can be said about those? Are such reactions optimal and feasible enough to continue?

Life is good when we are good to others. Behavior is one of the most important aspects in life which can make or break relations, which can be of any kind. Does such kind of unnecessary behavior required? We are human beings and we commit mistakes and that’s how we learn as learning is a continuous process. But what about those who commit mistakes and never acknowledge and continue to indulge in blame game? Newton’s 3rd law of motion says “every action is having an equal and opposite reaction”. In case if someone gives such reaction, shall we also start giving such response to those? Is tit for tat is the solution?

But one question which still remain unanswered is Why do people react so often even though if it is not required??? What is your view on this… Please share in the form of your comment… 🙂

– Ashish Kumar

 

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…SURPRISING SURPRISE…


Life is always full of adventures and surprises. Sometimes a surprise which makes you feel proud of yourself and at that time you don’t have words to express that happiness. One of that surprise recently happened with me too when I got a message from baggout that they have selected one of my post in top 15 hobbies post of India for the month of May, 2015. It was a shock for me but felt good to know that. And when the post got published it was again a surprise. The surprise was that my post got the 2nd place on the list. 🙂 This I have never expected.  That time there was a big smile on my face… 🙂

 

Emoticon making a point

Writing quotations is my hobby and I started a series of my posts namely FEW QUOTES-I,II… in which I shared three of my quotes. My last post on that series was FEW QUOTES – VII         which featured in that list. Thanks to all of you for making this happen. 🙂  I would also like to thank baggout for selecting my post for that list. Its an honour for me to be featured in that list.

Here is the link of that list of top 15 hobbies post. 🙂

Top 15 hobbies post of May, 2015

I would like to thank all of my readers without which this would not have been possible. Thank you so much friends. Keep your blessings on me so that I can keep writing always and abide by the expectation that you posses from my posts.   🙂

  – Ashish Kumar

…CENTURY – 100 FOLLOWERS…


100Followers

Recently my blog crossed 100 followers. I would like to thank all my readers for the love and support showing on my blog. It is because of your valuable views and comments which motivates me to write better and better. Keep showering your blessings on me and my blog. 🙂

The 50th and 100th followers which I would like to mention for sure.

Yashika – She is my 50th follower. Thank you Yashika for becoming my 50th follower. 🙂

Prajakta – She became 100th follower of Ashish-Vision. I would like to thank Prajakta for the same. 🙂

And a big thanks to all of you my friends for giving your valuable time for reading my articles,poems and quotes. 🙂

Keep visiting always and motivating me with your valuable views. 🙂

 – Ashish Kumar

…FEW QUOTES – V…


Quotations are a part of our daily life. Quotations are capable of portraying complex things in few words. We always come across many quotations that we find in TV, newspaper, blogs etc. We love to use them whenever there is a chance.

So here are few of my quotations which I hope you will enjoy reading it. It’s a    small post so it won’t take much of your time. Your views are precious to me. So i would like to have your views on it. I hope you will enjoy going through it… 🙂

1.        Friendship is one of the most crucial relationships in this world.  You can             easily  find “friends” among yourself and you will have many people who will “portray themselves as your friend”.   “Good friends” are hard to find and last but not least “true friends” are rarely found. If you have true friends in your life then you are really a lucky person.

 

2.  Become shadow of yourself but not like the ordinary one who leaves you in     absence of light. But the one who will be present with you even though if there is no light.

 

3.   There must be a fire in you who should keep burning to carry you forward,  who should build the desire and obsession to contribute to this world which is the ultimate service to yourself and to this world.  So let the fire burn always.

 

Ashish Kumar