Why do people react so often ???


There are time when we come across situations where the conversation among the two persons becomes aggressive suddenly and we are left in shocking condition. We wonder what went wrong suddenly? The reason for such reactions can be many from suppressing the anger to intentionally reacting to get rid of the conversation, and at the same time, avoid interacting with such person in future as well. Also sometimes the problem which can be resolved properly becomes complex due to such reactions. In a group also if everything is going fine and suddenly one of the group members reaction is not up to the mark, things become complicated. The problem which can be solved politely and peacefully becomes complex and sometime going in to never solving state. But what make people to react at a sudden?

There are many who pretend to be too familiar and behavioral with friends or groups and leave no stone unturned to maintain such status in front of others even though they aren’t. And from the back they continue to criticize you unnecessary which hurts when it comes in to your knowledge. Also it may happen when you need any assistance from these people because you think them to be humble enough, you may get a reverse reaction from them and it happens. I am sure many of you who are going through this post have experienced this in your life.  So, what can be said about those? Are such reactions optimal and feasible enough to continue?

Life is good when we are good to others. Behavior is one of the most important aspects in life which can make or break relations, which can be of any kind. Does such kind of unnecessary behavior required? We are human beings and we commit mistakes and that’s how we learn as learning is a continuous process. But what about those who commit mistakes and never acknowledge and continue to indulge in blame game? Newton’s 3rd law of motion says “every action is having an equal and opposite reaction”. In case if someone gives such reaction, shall we also start giving such response to those? Is tit for tat is the solution?

But one question which still remain unanswered is Why do people react so often even though if it is not required??? What is your view on this… Please share in the form of your comment… 🙂

– Ashish Kumar

 

Dear me…


Dear me…
Where  are you?
No news, no post, no comments.
There is no interaction with readers.
A sudden absence from your own interest.
Makes a question mark on your interest.

Dear me…
Where are you?
Are you in your lost world?
Or you are in a break?
Agreed
Its good to have a break.
But break doesn’t mean prolonged absence.
Its good to get the things done right.
Getting detached completely is also not right.

Dear me…
I was here, I am here.
This is my world and I will be back.
Everything is fine.
Nothing to worry.
For the absence I say sorry.
I am back now.
Back with my posts.
Have lots of tasks pending.
Reading, posting comments and writing.
Catching up with all these soon.
Dear me…
Just enjoy the sunny noon.

smiley

– Ashish Kumar

Delicate Smile


When you gives your delicate smile.
Even the stone breaks with a smile.
Staring look from your face.
Makes me to always look on your face.

The opening of your mouth for talk.
Makes the way for never ending talk.
Sometimes giving a devastating look.
Makes me to have a forever look.

When you make me laugh loud.
That time I really feel proud.
Holding your hands for walk and talk.
I forget the journey of long walk.

The trust binds us forever.
Not aware whether we are made for each other.
As one day we will be detached.
Death is the ultimate truth.
I will miss you…
Your void will be felt.
Only memories will be kept.
Will miss your delicate smile.
Which compels even mountains to dance and joy.
As…
When you gives your delicate smile.
Even the stone breaks with a smile.

smile

– Ashish Kumar