Learn to Unlearn



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Learning is a continuous process and we learn from our life which consists of ups and downs. We learn from our experience and our mistakes which plays drastic role in shaping our personality and our future. Life is full of startling moments and frankly speaking, this moment teaches us a lot. Be it good or bad, meets our expectations or not, those moments plays a significant role in life. What we read in our academics and what we learn from our work experience are crucial indeed but one should be ready to unlearn few things. Confused? What it means is, one should also try not to learn what he is willing to learn and on the other side, one should also unlearn which he had already learnt. Unlearning means, to discard something from your memory which you learnt previously. Let us see few things which one should try to unlearn:

  • Bad Habits: We learn many habits in our life easily and whether to continue with those habits is a choice. Habits can be good and bad and it’s better to unlearn the bad habits and keep the good habits. Again, one should also unlearn the habit of willing to learn the bad things. Put it simply, if one is willing to learnt some bad habits, he should unlearn his habit of learning bad habits.
  • Overconfidence: Confidence is required and necessary in our life but overconfidence can be dangerous. Being confident enough is good but one should not be overconfident as it leads to opposite results sometimes. Hence, it’s better to unlearn being overconfident.
  • Unrealistic: Be realistic in nature and set your standards as per your convenience. Simply stated, be pragmatic and unlearn being unrealistic.
  • Pretending; This is one of the most important things many possess which should be unlearned. Many people have the habit of pretending themselves to be smart in many aspects, be it academics or in day to life. In fact, many will indulge unnecessarily and start their knowledge sharing without being requested. Also, many people have the habit of late sitting in office pretending themselves to be very occupied with work. Many also do late sitting in order to get attention from their superiors. What they do by late sitting is a question mark. No doubt, if it is required sometimes late sitting should be done depending on the nature and complexity and emergency of work. But doing late sitting just to show-case is not correct. “Late sitting should not be considered as virtue.” There are several other aspects of pretending or show-casing which should be unlearned. Be natural in your work and behavior.
  • Claiming to be Omniscient: Here comes one more interesting thing which requires attention. Many people have the habit of claiming themselves to be omniscient, meaning they know everything. These people are so well self-motivated and self-proclaimed that they think what they are saying is always correct and no one knows more than what he knows. This is where ego and attitude starts growing and ultimately it reaches a stage where self-proclaimed omniscient person doesn’t considers and listens to others as what he thinks is only right. These people find difficult to get respected.  Nobody is perfect  in this world and hence, unlearn claiming to be omniscient.
  • Critic: It’s better not to criticize on everything and every time. Criticize only if it is requires and that too in a constructive manner. Criticism should never be made a habit and hence, unlearn being a critic. I have already discussed in my previous article titled, Unnecessary Criticism and hence will keep it short.

Learning is very important and in my opinion learning to unlearn few things is also important. There can be many other aspects of unlearning apart from what I have shared as the above list is not exhaustive. There might be one question in your mind and that is, which one is difficult; learn or learn to unlearn? The answer to this question is difficult and it is subjective. However, with my little experience, I think unlearning is difficult than learning or learning to unlearn is difficult. What is your take on unlearning and which one  is more difficult? Do share your views. 🙂 🙂

– Ashish Kumar

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Shayari – 4


ज़िन्दगी में एक बात हमेशा याद रखना।

भूल कर भी किसी पर ज़रूरत से ज़्यादा विश्वाश मत करना।

Ashish Kumar

Wise Choice


World is full of rejection and denial.
This is a weather which is perennial.
Barking people often bite.
Ignoring them is the wise choice.
Move ahead with your views.
Don’t get distracted with others views.
The more you ask the more you get confused.
Have faith in yourself in order to not get misused.
Tolerate which can be tolerated.
Don’t take everything for granted.
Everyone is unique and different.
Hence…
Be different and make a difference.
Love yourself and your work.
Avoid doing unproductive work.
What you learn is what you earn.
Hence keep a habit to learn.
Don’t get distracted with the hearsay.
Move ahead and find your way.
As…
World is full of rejection and denial.
This is a weather which is perennial.
Barking people often bite.
Ignoring them is the wise choice.
Ignoring them is the wise choice.

– Ashish Kumar

One has to go


Sooner or later, one has to go.
Why to waste time to satisfy useless ego?
Live and let live should be the motto.
Powered by motivation and inspiration, one should go.
Love the beauty of nature which is ultimate.
Learn from nature as it is your mate.
Death is the ultimate truth.
Accept it and don’t lie.
Why to fear as we have to die.

Body is waste after death.
Good deeds are the only thing left.
The return of your deeds will pay you one day.
Sooner or later you will enjoy that day.
Life is short and uncertain.
Good deeds will be remembered for certain.
Stay positive, focused and then grow.
Sooner or later, you will glow.
Love life and enjoy every moment.
Every moment is indeed a present.
As…
Sooner or later, one has to go.
Why to waste time to satisfy useless ego?

– Ashish Kumar

An Incomplete Poem


One day I thought of writing a poem.
After a big gap of many months.
Thought came and so do words.
I tried to pen down my words.
Mind was full of feelings and emotions.
I was trying to portray my inner situation.
Blurred in the midst of day and night.
I was writing the journey of my life.

Moving the pen slowly on the paper.
I started to describe my feelings on paper.
The journey which was belligerent and haunted.
Made me to write which needs to be trusted.
I gave my all effort to depict the suffering.
Slowly tears came while recalling.
During the course of the ups and downs.
I did have nervous breakdown.
Relationships became trading port.
I was left without any support.
Recalling those memoirs while writing.
My hand and brain were shivering.
I took a break for a while.
Hoping to smile while I write.

Couple of hours passed and I sat again to write.
Moving into deep of my heart to portray that drive.
Powerful emotions and strong words were chosen.
Unable to phrase the sentence, the poem was left open.
The poem was incomplete and I was shocked.
Made me to realize, I entered the writer’s block.
Feelings, emotions and scenes everything I have selected.
The poem which I started to write never completed.
I look towards my literary piece of work.
Hoping to complete that work.
As I started to write and complete the poem.
Made me to feel, it’s an incomplete poem.

 – Ashish Kumar

Take away


Each day opens another way.

Depends on us how we take away.

Challenges comes apart.

One has to take a part.

Don’t run away from obstacles.

Stay focused and tackle.

Deal the problem with serene.

Life can become a cuisine.

Everything which came has to go.

Better to face it rather than letting it go.

You never know what can be the game changer.

Hence become a problem solver.

As…

Each day opens another way.

Depends on us how we take away.

Ashish Kumar